My boyfriend is such a flirt, seriously. I think he's really enjoying his time having a girlfriend who doesn't get angry each time he texts a girl. Hahahaha! My friends asked me if abuso na daw ba. I said "Nope! :)" (Hahahah may smile talaga)
These are one of things most of my girl friends and I disagree on. In my opinion, there are really some things that girls have to accept. Guy or girl, a flirt will always be a flirt. If you want to go into a relationship with someone like that, you can't expect that person to change just because you want them to. Life isn't a fairytale so we shouldn't keep thinking that Love conquers everything, even habits and attitudes. You have to learn how to make a guy honest with you. And being jealous over every girl is NOT the right way to do that. Guys have a tendency to act more rebellious the more strict you get or the more you make them feel you don't trust them. You have to accept the fact that going into a relationship with someone means that besides the usual disagreements, there are certain bothersome things (and people) that come together with that. It can be any of his bad habits (In my case his being such a flirt), or any of yours (same as his). It can be anyone from who flirts back with you or your boyfriend. All you have to do is realize that it's normal for couples to have some disagreements from time to time. You have to trust each other to be responsible with your decisions. Never expect. You can hope that he changes by himself but let him do the forcing. If he wants to do that for you, he has to realize that for himself. But of course, when you think you've really stretched your patience to the fullest and he's still being an ass, the only solution is to leave the guy. Yun lang yun.
Trust is the foundation of all relationships. And I'm proud to say that ours is well-built. My boyfriend and I are very honest with each other. Well, I guess there might be some things he's hiding from me, but I trust him enough to let him decide which things are important and which are not. And he's told me a lot of things he has done that any other shallow girl would be screaming and fretting about. I appreciate his honesty very much. His friends tell me he wasn't like that before and that he's been extra sweet with me, and that's such a morale booster. When it comes to relationships, I try to make the best decisions as much as I can. But PMS will always be my mortal enemy. It's a good thing he's been patient with me too. Hindi daw niya ko natitiis eh. suuuus. hahahaha.
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